40smeetAvis 

I like that there isn't constant pressure to upgrade or rush through things. You can move at your own pace and focus on genuine connections. That makes a big difference.

I've had several enjoyable conversations even when there wasn't a romantic spark. That says something about the type of members using the platform.

I joined after a long term relationship ended. Wasn't sure I was ready, but I figured talking to new people couldn't hurt. It ended up helping more than I expected.

The profile quality feels better than many platforms I've tried before. There seems to be more effort put into introductions.

I found the questionnaire much more useful than I expected. It helped narrow down people who shared similar outlooks on life.

For anyone over forty who's tired of endless swiping and shallow conversations, this feels like a much more sensible alternative.

I'd been off the dating scene for nearly a decade, so I wasn't looking forward to figuring out another app. This one felt straightforward from the start. No nonsense, no trying to keep up with trends. Just people looking to meet someone.

I liked that the questions were more thoughtful than usual. They made me slow down and think about the kind of person I would actually enjoy spending time with.

When you enter this site, you're presented with a showcase of fake accounts. My hit rate was higher on AFFsexy.com
At least I've already had a few face-to-face dates. Do you think any real meetups are possible via 40sMeet? I highly doubt it. The matches they sent me were hundreds or even thousand miles away, they were ridiculously inappropriate and they didn't match my search criteria at all. 40s Meet is based on deception. They take your money for the annual subscription and then they don't care if you get any service. Actually they don't intend to provide any service.

The site feels designed for adults rather than trying to copy younger dating apps. That was refreshing.

I’ve had a few lovely chats with men who actually read my profile. That sounds small, but it makes a big difference.

My first few conversations were simple but warm. That alone gave me more confidence than I expected.

I was hesitant about online dating because I'd heard so many horror stories. Thankfully, my experience has been the opposite. People have been polite, genuine, and willing to get to know each other properly. It feels much more human than endless swiping.

I was hesitant about online dating because I'd heard so many horror stories. Thankfully, my experience has been the opposite. People have been polite, genuine, and willing to get to know each other properly. It feels much more human than endless swiping.

I have been on this site a couple of weeks or so and have chatted with a few people that have in my opinion turned out to be scammers using fake profiles.
The messages seen similar from so called different people from different areas but look familiarly written.
After asking to chat on the phone at some point, they always turn that down and want to keep messaging as if they aren't real or fake they can't speak on the phone of course as they'd get found out.
I've never seen do many ladies from all over the place all Catholic also lol
Nearly every one Catholic which is another give away as they should be from all different religions tbf.
When I've said I'll leave it and not bother with the app anymore, the messages I've had back are also very similar and longish saying they'd like to continue messaging which is also very strange as they are just too samey ( that's not a word haha ).
So I'm saying scammers and maybe one or two people or more scammers are chatting with lots of people and I'm getting messages at daft o'clock in a morning and then another from a different one 3 minutes later, which is not normal tbf.
Everyone bar non says Catholic on their profile !!! I don't mind that but it's just things I've picked up over the weeks that don't seem right.
All the best if you are looking for a partner as I am, but don't get fooled by fake people and it seems the internet sites are full of them nowadays, which is a big shame tbf !!!!

SCAM ALERT If i could give a zero i would. Wish I had looked at reviews first. They take your money then you cannot get in your account. You email to cancel and they say do via profile which you cannot access. Loads of emails received which you cannot access the messages. They will not refund monies despite no access to site. DO NOT SIGN UP

These people are total scammers! The site is terrible and in order to leave it, they refuse to accept an email and make you write and post a letter via registered mail to Austria!!! Do not get caught in this trap with these con artists!!!

Sc@mming site, they will refuse to cancel your subscription then tell you to pay up even when they have canceled the subscription. This was an actual quote from them, "Your membership has been canceled, but that doesn't mean you won't have to pay anything to. The information has been sent to you." This is totally illegal and they need to close this site along with its sister companies, datinglions.com and loveat50.com

I am from NZ using this ..its totally crap.
This app is a complete scam! They charge a monthly subscription without giving any real access to members. You can’t even properly use the app, yet they keep deducting money from your account. The worst part? Cancellation is impossible! They make it deliberately difficult to stop payments, and customer support is nonexistent.

Stay far away from this scammy app, and do not fall for their fake promises! Report it if you can and warn others before they lose money too.

Scam ,scam ,scam!!!, thank you for becoming a member,we will bill you incrementally every month The first indication of a scam was that they stole a years subscription fee from me in one grab ,which is NOT what their website states!, The rest are just chatbots or fake profiles,They even sent me a "like" profile for an 86 year old woman!!,This was after i stated my age range interest to be between 40-60,far out (lol) other profiles were plainly bullshit, I live in nz and my distance range was set to 100kms so they send me a like for some australian woman???Absolute rubbish!!,reverse charges👍👍