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The women are either paid to chat or they are bots. I got the VIP package and I asked them to chat on telegram or Whatsapp and they prefer the man keep paying. The actual people you're talking to could be old ladies or men. Beautiful women. Probably pictures from the Internet or AI.

This site is reprehensible. The bottom line is simple: you will NEVER meet anyone in person. You might think you are getting close, but it will never happen. I have fallen prey to the allure of beautiful women telling me how wonderful I am and sending me countless letters and videos, including many that are erotic. But it is all part of the scheme to get you to purchase more and more credits. I am embarrassed to admit that I have spent $5,000+ on this site. Here are two recent examples of how the site operates. In the first example, the “woman” told me over a period of multiple weeks that she would visit me. On the eve of her visit, she claimed that she fell and tore her Achilles tendon. She sent me a photo of her bandaged leg in her hospital bed. But she was unable to tell me the name of the hospital and although I asked for a photo with the date on a sign next to her leg, no photo was ever sent. In the second example, the “woman” and I exchanged messages and photos for over three weeks. She told me she would visit me on a certain date and even gave me the time her flight was scheduled to land. We agreed to meet at the airport. I bought her a gift and made dinner reservations. She even sent me a photo of the outfit she said she would be wearing. Two hours before I was set to leave for the airport she messaged me she had been in an accident with her car, her license had been taken away, she had a concussion, and had missed her flight. I then realized I had entered the wrong airport code for her and that in fact there were NO flights from her airport to my city. The time she had given me was a lie. The site should be reported to the FBI. I would sue myself but the cost would be high and the duration of any lawsuit would likely be lengthy. But I would gladly join a class action against the site owners. Do not go anywhere near this site.

The site is one big scam from start to finish ! You will sepend lots of money and not get a thing. Customer support will not help you at all as well.

This WILL be your worst dating website experience... bar NONE!
The website is NOT a dating site, it is a site that wants lonely people to get roped into exhausting, never ending conversations with girls who are commissioned EMPLOYEES of the site. You will notice NOT a single girl is unattractive. And I'm talking 'normal'. This site pays to professionally photograph girls... then has them send messages to random men to engage them in conversation. If you are like MOST men... you see a message from a really pretty girl and you jump to buy credits so you can respond. Hundreds of dollars later you will hear "I'm in Ukraine... there's a war going on here..." or "I'm so sick of your lies... each time you say you'll send me your number its all 'dashes or dots' and you're playing games with me so goodbye!" After you spend hundreds or thousands of dollars... they say goodbye because YOU did something. Nope. It's time for them to move on. For example, gifts the girls will ask for: 101 red roses on the site is something like 3500 credits = $839 US! Are you kidding me? And if you say "No"... she's history. I can fly a girl from the Ukraine to the US for $839! The site will interfere with your ability to exchange any form of contact info. They use AI to delete messages that MAY have contact info to frustrate your attempts.
Long story short: This is is a TOTAL SCAM and should be shut down by the authorities for being a despicable scam! And lastly... I posted pictures of myself. I got 80 'hits' the first week! Trust me, I am okay looking but not deserving of 80 letters on one site. If it truly was based on my looks I'd be dancing on a stage at a male revue in Las Vegas and making a grand a night! I would not be on a dating website... especially this SCAM site! Don't take my word for it! Go blow $500 to $1000 bucks and then remember what I and 100s of others told you! (Now watch them post a polite response to this... asking me to get in touch with them for a customer service 'resolution') More nonsense from 'myscammydates.com'

2/7/2026: I now have screen shots of text messages between their customer service agent and myself in which the agent CLEARLY states that if a girl sends her contact info... their system will "delete or replace characters with '*' ... but the man is welcome to send his info to her! Of course! Because they don't want their "chat employees" to get your info and take the conversation offline... cutting the company out of the 'scam'. I wish there was a way to upload image files. I would do so...
I also have emails from 'Max' at the company offering to buy my silence for 100 'free' credits... then 200 'free' credits. I refused both and told them I would write to the Consumer protection Bureau of the US Federal Trade Commission and request them to look into this scam.

Hi,
My Second Review testing bit while Longer ok if met a girl HERE WHICH WILL NOT HAPPEN , WOULD RIGHT IF BY A MIRACLE I DO WHICH IT WONT RIGHT..Would come on here and say did meet a girl here All , ACTUALLY these date site ive tested on & off for while over 5 years Right EVER GOT TO MEET ONE NEVER Total SCAM WHAT EVER THEY TELL YOU & SAY Guys here should know this after a while here Got be Really Dumb to think you will Full of bots as i said YES WE HAVE FAKE PROFILES HERE
GOOD LUCK TO ANYONE THAT DOES Oh I GOT COUPLE GIRLS FLYING TO MY CITY AND ASKED ME ARE YOU READY TO MEET.. LIKE YEAH 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🙄 Get this too deleted my account still get messages sent no profile nothing PROVES THIS ALL Ai driven bots & Chat agents pretending to be the Lady You have been WARNED..Next site like this the Same so many like this out there .. An there's Many ,✌️I

Hi there I will not recommend this dating site at all, it is all scam, no wonder their reviews suck, I’m back & forth through emails trying to get a refund, all they give is excuses, honestly this is the worse dating site, this platform doesn’t fulfill according to it’s purpose THEY DO NOT CONNECT PEOPLE
Yes, on sites like MySpecialDates.com, women are often paid or earn commissions to chat and keep users engaged, generating revenue for the platform through credit systems for messages, photos, and video chats, leading many users to report feeling trapped in conversations with fake profiles to spend more money. These platforms are known for being credit-based, where users pay for every interaction, and women are incentivized to prolong chats, making it difficult to meet in person and feel like a genuine connection, according to numerous user reviews.

Vanessa 57 is not the real person in the picture on here its a scam ,beware everyone ,there just after ur money

Do not under any circumstances use this site. Dont fall into the trap of believing any of these women are real. Either they get paid a commision the more money they get you to spend opening videos that are extortionatley priced just for a few seconds or they are guys/gals working for the site and hiding behind fake photos. If you do ignore this warning and are lured it then use an app like “reversee” anf check every photo they senf you,you can even take a screen shot of videos and sometimes it will find the video online. You will see your bank balance drop if you decide to stay. It is full of liars and game players. Do not send photos unless you are happy that they get posted on the internet.
I have been asking for my account to be deleted for one week now and they do not even reply.
Its purely a business to make money.
Stay there at your peril you have been warned and anyone posting positive reviews has been put up to it. They all need a shotgun sticking up their asses

Spoke to the same person constantly for a week yet site blocked all attempts to exchange details to chat away from the site and meet in person. Complained to site numerous times just got a bullshit reply “ we are reviewing your request “. Nothing put a scam 100%

I tried the site without reading any reviews as I wanted an unbiased and open mind. registration was easy and the site layout was simple and clear. I identified two women that I was interested in (one in my country - UK not far from me and one in Beijing).
The profile for the lady in the UK (35)said she was from a beautician/ aesthetics industry & the profile for the slightly older lady in Beijing (48) said she was a Cardiologist.
Firstly I will agree with previous reviewers that the site is a money drain and I was lucky to notice this on day one.
Secondly when I mentioned this to both of the ladies I was talking to I offered to continue the conversation on another platform (Email) but I wasn't in the least bit surprised when I was given feeble excuses about "security" or told "I prefer to stay on this site chatting as I don't feel safe" (the reality is that anyone can now register for a secure email account for free).
Following this I tried to delete my profile (I have tried several times now as well as unsubscribing - Neither of which work as I am still getting unwanted mail). My experience of the site is negative unless you want an expensive pen pal & no actual meeting. This is exploiting vulnerable people and is as low as it comes. Avoid

I'm suspicous of this website becaise "every" looks like a model. I have chatted with over 30 women supposedly in my area. None would go off-site to chat on Telegram or Whats App. They insist on chatting on the website and burning up my credits. This dating website a genius scam.

Why does the site do everything to prevent men and women from meeting in the real world? If it were a serious dating site they would not put obstacles in the way of men and women meeting. They do this for the simple reason that they want to make the most money possible on fake profiles.
A good test is that after a while of chatting you ask the women if they want to chat on Facebook. Then they act very incomprehensible about Facebook, they don't know what it is *LOL* This is because their true identity will be revealed, as it is likely a man who is behind the profile. This is one of the only places where Ukrainian "women" don't know what Facebook is

So as I toed the waters i get a sense of a scam .I read the reviews and not one story of a successful hookup. I get a lot of nudes but I can get them anywhere on the internet.

I would have given this site zero stars if it were possible.

I’ve been on this platform as well as several others (SofiaDates, WishDates, RussianBrides, etc.), and the truth is they all operate the same way — and none of it is designed to help you meet a real woman.

At one point, a man who was running one of the profiles I’d been chatting with actually contacted me privately to tell me the truth: these profiles are not controlled by women at all. They’re operated by men working for the agencies. The photos are stolen from social media, modeling sites, or from Ukrainian “photo studios” where real women pose for money, never knowing their images will be used to scam men worldwide.

The chats, the “feelings,” the long letters — none of it is real. It’s a business model. Every message costs you money, and the longer they keep you engaged, the more you spend.

I learned this the hard way. After months of conversations with one woman, I flew all the way to Spain to meet her. She never showed up. She never intended to. The moment she realized I was actually coming, the communication faded… then stopped completely. I was ghosted the second I stopped paying to chat.

If you’re thinking of joining one of these sites, don’t.
If you believe you’re forming a real connection, you’re not.
And if you think you’re the exception, you won’t be.

These sites are not matchmaking services — they’re highly organized scams built around fake profiles, paid actors, and scripted responses. Save your time, money, and emotion. I wish someone had warned me before I wasted both.

A bit of a scam. Free tokens to begin with, then the money drain begins by buying token packs. Who knows if the women are real, but I think most are. The photo shoots are humorous and sad as most are Ukraine and unfortunately the country is destroyed. You can’t have contact with them. This is a Ponzi scheme, brilliant as it is. I wish I had come up with it to rake in the millions/billions from men looking for a little adventure not a lifelong partnership

This is a scam. Should be illegal. Please, they should shut it down.
They even invade the trust pilot site or it would have zero rating.

I have had the same experience on all of the sites. Now, I’m the dumbest person in this world or the ladies on these sites are just pictures. Models dear I say . As I have now been on most of them and I have spent an embarrassing amount of money trying to find love. They never show up at meeting agreement and it all comes back as you got it wrong.

Two ladies denied my contact number after long conversations You just want to make money so l won't buy any more credit. Spent over 250 dollars to gradually get each others number to no avail.If you like someone enough should be automatic or blocked without cost.lf you have any decency we should be refunded.The one star is for the clients My id Kurt Brettig K B ID2098834690 and Hanna38 ID2129671900

Be very careful! their latest scam is to trick you into a perpetually recurring debit at instaneouslly repeating intervals. You could lose THOUSANDS in a minute. The only stop point is your credit card limit.

I asked several times to delete my Profile via Chat. No answer or only excuses why they didn’t yet. I also contacted the support via email and until today no answer or action concerning the deletion of my account. Be careful: this site is a fake. They want only your money. I made some researches about some profile: and it was really easy to find the pictures of the woman on other pages. I’m sure, a lot of the profiles on the page are cracked and they use stolen photos.
And you will see what they will answer to this post….. they will say, that she tried to contact me, but my mail is not working!!!!

As I mentioned above, nothing has happened so far. They couldn't contact me, which sounds familiar from other chats, right? On August 21, I was asked to send my data by email so that they could delete my profile. I did that. Weeks have passed since then without anything happening. My account is still active and has not been deleted. For me, this site is a complete failure. Unprofessional, incompetent, disastrous. I don't understand why they have a button on the site to delete your profile if it doesn't work. Simply incompetent. Warning: don't waste a minute or a cent on this site. I wonder if a class action lawsuit should be filed against this company?
I'm curious to see what the next response to this letter will be. In any case, I will get back to you and let you know if and when my profile has been deleted. Has anyone else had the same problem with deleting their profile?