Collarspace Avis 

i have had a profile with CS for over a decade and its predecessor, collarme before that. I would give a lower rating but that wouldn't be fair as I have made quite a number of friends through the site even though it is unarguably self challenged.
does this site take forever to make profile change approvals, yes, even if the change is as simple as your age. but you might find that you get blocked from approval because someone actually took the time to read your write up and found violations to the TOS.
does this site have individuals who come across as scary, sketchy, or dangerous?? absolutely, yet one must take into account that the BDSM community and lifestyle is multifaceted and vastly different from that which most are accustomed and there is a great deal of fantasy role playing involved; the gorean lifestyle, based off fantasy novels, espouses slavery and trade while primal and primitive is more animalistic going back to our preverbal roots, and CNC allows someone to live out a force fantasy. there are so many other different things but the one thing that ties them all together is communication and CS offers a platform to open the dialog into ones interests.
i certainly wouldn't suggest CS to someone new or looking to get into the lifestyle but as a platform to converse and find like minded individuals, without a subscription, it is one of few options.
now the worst things about the site, they do implement terrible senseless changes, without notice, that make finding people to talk with far more challenging, they often experience a lot of glitchy downtime, and they do not have very responsive support services.

This website is full of a lot illegal activities incest, human trafficking, scammers, time wasters, fakes, liar, kidnappers, closet serial killers, abusers, rapists, predators.
As a dating website is a very dangerous site. Being a former Collarspace mentor and admin. I reported profiles that were openly wanting others involvement in their incest, human trafficking, rape, kidnapping, open slave auctions. It’s a world wide melting pot of deranged abusers and predators allowed freely for free to hunt as predators on this site. This site has a lot of sick deranged personalities.
I met someone I dated a male from the site that found me and he is a Chicago Surgeon wanting to make me his slave . Till he told me the sickening stuff as a Closet Serial Killer and illegal surgeries he was involved in which was so frightening. I had to run from him. Frightened and living in fear. Reported him to the FBI. The owner of the website is a Narcissistic individual allowing this site to be infested of predators. News reports of this site free members being kidnapped and murders. But this website continues to get away with all this illegal activity.

CollarSpace felt mostly inactive, with very little meaningful interaction. I ended up spending more time on AFFlirt.com
which felt a lot more natural and engaging. Conversations there seemed smoother, people were more responsive, and the overall experience felt less frustrating. If you’re looking to actually improve your dating life, that might be a better option. For me, it made more sense than spending time on platforms like CollarSpace that didn’t really lead anywhere.

Like many others I had an account there for decades.
I made many meaningful connections and although the site was clunky, basic and barely functioning it did work.
If you can be bothered wading through all the scammers, idiots and scumbags there are also still some genuine people in the community there.
However admin is very slow to approve a prfile, and if you changed even one thing in your profile you went onto a queue awaiting reapproval, and may sit there indefinitely. I had this problem but was patient knowing they can be slow. But when I emailled IT support they accused me of being a scammer, and of 'faking' my gender and identity. They became abusive and refused to reapprove my profile so I have lost contact with many friends and contacts. It's this that I am most cranky about. There is no escalation or review process.
I suspect they have been bought by FriendFinder or someone and deliberately make it a bad experience to drive business to their main site. The sad thing is that there is a huge community of real people there that this site has just thrown away, squandering the goodwill and history. This alone is offensive to anyone that cares about online communities.

I have been on collarspace a couple times. Men are over eager. Try to meet and get off the site really quick.
No one cares to get to know someone.

I went to go back another time and it took weeks to get approved.

The setup is awful. The messaging is awful. I just went to another site instead

When it was Collarme and not Collarspace it was a great free site. Real profiles with real people in the lifestyle looking to meet up. It’s gone to hell like Alt.com and Bondage.com has

I have had a collar space for a long time now, and all of a sudden it down for maintenance and will be back in three days. That was four days ago, what happed did someone tell layoff the It-workers at Collarspace.com???

My profile went offline without me doing any changes. I tries to update age, picture, to remove or add details in the account, but it never gets approved. It has been like this for over a year.

Tried to open a new account and it is the same problem
Can never get the account approved, regardless what I write or don't write in my account.

Technical support doesn't answer.