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I've been using OurTime (OT) for some months now, and my experience has been mostly mediocre. Let's see pros (+) and cons (-) (keep in mind this is from a man's POW):

+ There is a good number of women in my area (being in Italy, this isn't true for other dating sites). I don't know how many are real, but some surely are.
+ If you join the site but you don't subscribe (pay), OT will send you periodically a mail with a discount on your subscription. So you better wait for it.

- Most profiles have a very minimal, or even empty, description. It's like these women don't put even a minimum of effort in their dating approach. Many posts just one picture; many of them are with sunglasses on.
Of course this isn't OT's fault, but it still makes for a disappointing experience.
- The user interface (on PC, never used the app) is poor: maybe it's designed mostly for mobile, but many actions require several clicks or are unnecessarily awkward.
- I sent a question to their help desk: I didn't get any reply. I'm afraid this is their nomal modus operandi.
- The worst aspect, though, it's that when you pay for a normal subscription (not Premium), you can send messages but the receiver will NOT be able to reply or even READ them! Therefore you pay but it's practically useless, it will be like talking to a wall. And this is not explicitly said on the subscription page nor clearly on the help pages. I sent several long messages (before discovering this), and I didn't hear back from any of them; of course, they couldn't even READ my messages!
With a Premium subscription, though, anybody will be able to write to you and - of course - reply to your messages. Keep this in mind.
It feels like the normal subscription is kind of a "clickbait" to engage users, and then push them into the more costly Premium one. I find this dishonest and manipulative, so it's most likely I will never use this site again.

Summary: OT seems like a good dating site at first, with a fair number of users and nice functions. It being directed at "senior" users only (50+) makes it more focused and, in theory at least, more likely to create fruitful interactions.
In pratice, though, most users seems shallow or trivial or too passive (here in Italy, at least). Navigating the site is sometimes awkward. And the normal subscription plan is almost useless, since your messages won't be read nor can be replied to (but they don't tell you this). It feels like this company cares more about its business than about the users.
All in all, in my opinion OT is not really worth it. And I'm afraid this is true for every dating site in the Match group (Match, Meetic, Ourtime, Tinder, Hinge, etc.).

*** Italiano
Uso OurTime (OT) da qualche mese ormai, e la mia esperienza è stata per lo più scadente. Vediamo i pro (+) e i contro (-) (tenete presente che questo è il punto di vista di un uomo):

+ Ci sono un buon numero di donne nella mia area (essendo in Italia, questo non vale per altri siti di incontri). Non so quante siano vere, ma alcune sicuramente lo sono.
+ Se ti iscrivi al sito ma non ti abboni (paghi), OT ti invierà periodicamente una mail con uno sconto sul tuo abbonamento. Quindi è meglio aspettare.

- La maggior parte dei profili ha una descrizione scarna o breve, o addirittura vuota. E' come se queste donne non si impegnassero minimamente nel loro approccio al dating. Molte pubblicano solo una foto; molte di loro indossano occhiali da sole.
Ovviamente questo non è colpa di OT, ma rende comunque l'esperienza deludente.
- L'interfaccia utente (su PC, non ho mai usato l'app) è scadente: forse è pensata principalmente per i dispositivi mobili, ma molte azioni richiedono diversi clic o sono inutilmente scomode.
- Ho inviato una domanda al loro help desk: non ho ricevuto risposta. Temo che questo sia il loro standard.
- L'aspetto peggiore, però, è che quando paghi un abbonamento normale (non Premium), puoi inviare messaggi ma il destinatario NON potrà rispondere o addirittura LEGGERLI! Quindi paghi ma è praticamente inutile, sarà come parlare al muro. E ciò non è detto esplicitamente nella pagina dell'abbonamento né chiaramente nelle pagine di aiuto. Ho inviato diversi lunghi messaggi (prima di scoprirlo), e non ho ricevuto risposta da nessuna di loro; ovviamente, non potevano nemmeno LEGGERE i miei messaggi!
Con un abbonamento Premium, invece, chiunque potrà scriverti e - ovviamente - rispondere ai tuoi messaggi. Tienilo a mente.
Sembra che l'abbonamento normale sia una specie di "specchietto per le allodole" per coinvolgere gli utenti e poi spingerli al più costoso Premium. Lo trovo disonesto e manipolativo, quindi è molto probabile che non userò mai più questo sito.

If I could give them zero, I would. After purchasing a six month subscription for almost $200 (trying seriously to find a real relationship,) I was inundated with profiles that had nothing to do with my preferences. and then when I needed to change my contact email because Outlook was blocking my messages, OT blocked me! Claimed I was suspicious because of an email change and then they have ZERO human support. You live in a loop of reset your password until you are blue in the face and then you’re told YOU VIOLATED SOMETHING (we won’t tell you what, but you can’t have your money back!). Horrible and more disappointing than the inappropriate profiles they sent me. Because there is no way to get customer service, you are simply screwed. Don’t go on the site unless you are willing to throw away your money. I really tried to give this a good effort, but how incredibly sad it turned out.

Alle leden heb ik al meer dan 2 jaar geleden gezien. Je kan niet zoeken als nieuw (nog niet betalend lid). Mijn gevoel: Klopt NIETS van !!!

GEwoon NIET doen zonde van je geld !!

Member for 4 months. Company claims that they will email date/member profiles to you daily as potential matches. But emailed member profiles live all over the country, not within your state, or within your geographic preferences. Did contact one member who had same problem, and ended her membership. They keep trying to sell you additional services, which if you don’t purchase limits your ability to contact other members. Site poorly managed, not worth the time or effort.

Absolute worst dating app ever! Total scam! They blatantly lie to you by telling you that if you pay a subscription you can filter what you want in a man/woman so that that’s all you’ll get in your “feed”. Example; I filtered they had to be at least 6 foot tall, live within 50 miles radius of me and be under the age of 60. The only way I could do that is if I paid for a subscription called premium so that I could use the filters… so, After I paid the premium and submitted the filters guess what didn’t happen? You got it! I still got a bunch of short men who lived in different states in my feed matter of fact I never got anybody in my feed that was remotely close to what I had submitted as my ideal mate and things that I called dealbreaker such as smoking or drinking. The so-called deal breakers are supposed to protect you from being matched with somebody who smokes or drinks if you don’t. But only if you pay for the premium subscription! Which I did because I’m an idiot but I won’t fall for that again and I’m hoping I can keep anybody else from falling from this scam of a company as well! Now I’m off to PayPal to see if I can get my money recouped!

This company seems to be a scam to steal your info & pics. When you join after submitting all info/pics, you're unable to verify the account. Customer service promises to look into it but it's been 2 days with no resolve.

Basically, you get locked out of the site immediately. Probably, so that they can use our photos & info to create fake profiles as do ALL dating sites now. Most profiles are not active people!!

As others have mentioned, this site is horrible. They have fake profiles, there are women on there that are professional hookers, other women looking for Visas to the US, I had at least 10 women ask me for money and a place to live. Multiple women asked me for personal information. Many women on the site are still married. They AUTO charge your card for every mouse click and then it's $150 for a six month subscription and then women who don't pay CAN"T respond to your unless you PAY MORE. Horrible, horrible site.

I never subscribed & they won't unsubscribe me
I suddenly started receiving daily emails from Ourtime.com a couple of weeks ago and despite hitting unsubscribe to every email the emails keep coming. Now I just have to block them. Judging from the other reviews it's a scam site so be very wary. 1 star is 1 too many.

I paid my subscription and it asked me for my phone number. I entered is and it came up as, 'Invalid, call customer services'. I had trouble finding the number because I could not get into the website. When I did they messaged me several questions and then declared I did not pass security. I claimed the money back from my credit card. Dodgy company, good luck!

A company who purchase email addresses illegally and create user accounts. You than report your email is being used fraudulently via the contact form in the email they send and there reply is to tell you to email someone else claiming its a different company. I try log into the account by the reset password option to shut the account down and I never receive an email to do it. Its now got to a point where this company have been reported to the Data Protection Commision as I've no other way to stop this crap.

Update. Company are refusing to close this. This is a huge safety concern for there current users. The negligence they are displaying is dumfounding.

Do not waste money on this rip off outfit. First I got the annual membership. Then was told other non member could not reply to my messages unless I paid another annual fee. I did and was useless. If I send out 30 messages I should at least get one reply. Many many married women on here just looking. Amazing how people disappear when asked if they want to meet. Same women over and over who never answer any messages. I have been on for about 3/4 of a year and have received no more than 10 answers to over 100 messages and I am no slouch.

Hard to believe the reviews are all 1 star. After being scammed by 2 sites, I did better research and landed on OurTime.com (the .com is important!). I've been on only a couple days and Im already chatting to 4 real ladies in my area. We exchanged ph numbers so far.
I have applied to another 4 ladies and nothing came back. (Bots always reply).
Only 4 star because the phone app is very glitchy; all it's good for is notifications. Then I go home to the PC to get a great experience!

Even when i stopped the subscription it send me messages that i have missed a payment, and wants me to login again, most likely to start the subscription again which i have read from others.
SCAM Warning - Do not use!

After a couple months I have concluded Ourtime.com is pretty much a scam site with the odd real person. Scammer profiles try to get information from you and if you ask a pointed question, poof the profile is deleted. Added charges without authorization. A lot of fake and/or deleted profiles being used. My fellow seniors please just stay away from this one.

I have had several bad experiences on this dating site. It is full of scammers. I met a scammer in 2018 and, unfortunately fell for the scam which put me in financial hardship to this day. This is very common. Quite a lot of people get scammed on dating sites and it has gotten worse from what I have read. This site is also visited by sociopaths. I met one back in 2019 who was very disturbing. I categorize him as a sexual predator. He duped me as well. I filed charges against him last year but did not get anywhere as he hides his identity. He never gave me any information about himself. Only that his name is Carlos. He is 5 feet 7 inches and was not 58 when I met him. He is slender about 135 to 150 pounds. A Hispanic man. Very deceiving and a pathological liar. Only interested in sex. I kept his text messages and gave them to the police when I filed the complaint against him. I realized afterwards when he blocked me back in November 2020 what is really is. I did my research. He fits the sociopathic traits. I should of paid attention more to the red flags. Even while I chatted with him on OurTime sex as prevalent with him. I did meet him and and was at my home which was a mistake. I was fortunate not to go to bed with him as it would of been more of a horrible experience. He showed signs of anger. He lied to me about wanting a relationship. I’m not going into graphics details but he used force and manipulation to get sex. That was when I decided to file charges. This is disturbing to me. Enough is enough. I’m seeking therapy after this ordeal and the scamming ordeal to help myself and find out why I put myself in these situations. I am writing this to whomever reads it to please be cautious and aware of someone’s true intentions. To trust your instinct if it doesn’t seem right than there is a reason. My experiences have brought me awareness. I don’t know any to let this stop me from finding a good partner. There is someone good out there. I hope these dating services start a criminal background check. This could help deter these fake scammers and sick disturbed people who no doubt have a criminal record. God bless and be safe. Also I wanted to mention that when I reported this person to OurTime I was only given three months free membership and ‘thanks’ for the report. Not good. Dating sites should be doing more as sexual assault is a crime. When I filed charges against this person last May with my local police department I asked if they would contact OurTime. I was told by your he detective handling my case that a warrant would be needed and they have not enough information on the assailant. I could only give what I had. The perpetrator did not divulge hardly anything about himself when I was communicating with him. I did save my text messages but his prepaid phone (another thing I didn’t know until I did a reverse lookup) that I am either blocked (which he did back in November 2020) or the phone is disconnected. I felt defeated and I hate to think what he has done to other women. I still part I can find something out one day and that this person is stopped from what he is doing.

This site is a joke! Take heed to these reviews before you pay. Thankfully, I only paid for a month at only $14. I will be cancelling before my time is up. Yeah, it's a complete waste of time. You get lots of views, likes, messages before you pay, then it all stops. Occasionally, you'll get a couple random fake hellos. If you receive a message, but it doesn't show that they viewed your profile...there's your sign. Best to stay clear of this sh*thole site. :)

Terrible site! Buyer Beware! Quick to take your money and offer extremely poor, ignorant Customer Service. Very unethical site! Save your money! You will quickly regret joining.

Gives you tons of fake views and likes to get you paying for membership then views and likes count drops like a rock and the place is dead.
It also has auto renew charges if you don't find the way to stop it.
Wasted money and time, not to mention the scammers.