Thereafter  Avis 

It's almost impossible to put into words the care, compassion and attention to detail Debbie applied to the celebration of our Dad's life. Dad's was a life of two distinct halves and it was important to share his story honestly. Acknowledging that some attendees would find one or other half hard to hear Debbie supported us to find the perfect balance, not only in how the story was told but how the ceremony was structured. She took time to guide us through every step of an unfamiliar process, and provided well thought out recommendations culminating in what can only be described as the perfect send off, one that Dad would have been pleased with.
Debbie was the very epitome of kindness, calm and professionalism, providing an end-to-end service and we thank our lucky stars that we chose her to support us. I wouldn't hesitate to recommend her.

Debbie is exceptional. She created a unique, bespoke, beautiful, memorable farewell for my very loved partner. It was perfect for him and us. She arranged absolutely everything and did so with enormous sensitivity, kindness and panache. She accompanied me every step of the way - stepping in when I needed support, giving me space when I wanted things done a certain way. She is the best and works with the best. She treats you and your beloved with enormous respect, dignity and empathy and can make you laugh in the grimmest of moments. It turned what could have been the worst day of my life into one full of love, joy and warmth. I would not go to anyone else

When our mum suddenly died last year, my sister and I knew that we could turn to Debbie to create a very personal and special farewell. She had taken such beautiful, loving care organising our cousin's funeral the year before. She really listened and helped us incorporate all the elements we felt were right, while making kind and helpful suggestions. Grief, especially the early stages, is a very overwhelming and bewildering experience. Debbie was the perfect guide through all the decisions we had to make when really all we wanted to do was hide under a duvet and never come out. She was patient as we developed our ideas, and approached the whole thing with great compassion, care and creativity. We couldn't recommend her services more highly, especially for those looking for something personal and bespoke.

Debbie took on so much of the stress - a real support and was such a comfort. Her management of the 'service' and her willingness to adapt as needed meant that an event we were dreading turned into something quite beautiful and memorable for tge right reasons.

It goes without saying that organising a funeral can be a challenging task, particularly due to the overwhelming emotions that you and your family are experiencing. The passing of my sister, Natasha, came as a sudden shock. Despite our estrangement for over three decades, the responsibility of arranging a meaningful remembrance service fell unexpectedly to me.

Honestly, the process couldn’t have been simpler and Debbie was there through every second, expertly guiding, advising, and reassuring, from beginning to end. Together, in just a couple of telephone calls, we explored the various options for the order of service, before Debbie presented a curated list of celebrants for me to consider. Additionally, she assisted in selecting the appropriate chapel size and style. We talked through the suitability of pall bearers and she ensured the arrival of my sister at the chapel was dignified and respectful, helping us with details of all the eco-friendly coffins available too. Debbie was the first to arrive at the crematorium, efficiently handling the delivery and arrangement of flowers on the day of the service, and she was the last to leave. I say it was simple, but I think Debbie just made sure it was effortless for us, and that’s exactly the support you need when grieving.

Everything was flawlessly executed, and Debbie remained by my side every step of the way, providing guidance, advice, and reassurance. The resulting service was a kind and loving tribute to a sister with whom I once shared a close bond. But importantly for me, it held significant importance for my mum; a grieving mother mourning the loss of her daughter.

When my step brother committed suicide his friends and families worlds were devastated.
Debbie from Thereafter was amazing at bringing us together and listening to our stories.
He was a musician and everyone at the funeral received a CD as an ‘Order of service’ with a compilation of his music.
Debbie made us feel all at ease and wove our stories together into a wonderful Eulogy.
Even my father (who can be very critical) was so impressed at the way the funeral flowed.
Debbie brought so many beautiful touches to the service. My favourite was the massive round of applause for a man who brought so much to the short life that he lived.
I would highly recommend Thereafter to support you and your family and friends in giving your deceased a truly memorable and meaningful send off.

Support, thoughtfulness, communication and kindness. Extremely professional throughout and relieved a huge amount of stress from one of the most stressful processes anyone can go through. The result was a wonderful and highly personalized send-off for someone who was loved so much by so many people. This is how it should be done. I have instructed my family to use Debbie's services when it's my time, with full confidence they will be glad they did.

Debbie was so attentive and sensitive to our needs and wishes at what was a most difficult time. She helped us navigate all the options and enabled us to not get too overwhelmed. Her modern approach to funeral planning is refreshing and uplifting. The date of the funeral was 12/3/2020

We recently had the heart-wrenching task of saying goodbye to a beloved member of our family, and we were incredibly fortunate to have Debbie by our side. From our first meeting, Debbie showed warmth and genuine empathy, immediately putting us at ease during such a difficult time.

What stood out most was Debbie's ability to truly listen. She took the time to hear our stories, our memories, and our pain, and crafted a service that was not only a tribute but a true reflection of our loved one’s unique spirit. The eulogy she delivered was beautifully personal, weaving together memories and sentiments that resonated deeply with everyone present.

During the service, Debbie struck the perfect balance between honouring our grief and celebrating the life that was lived. Her words brought both tears and smiles, providing comfort and a sense of closure that we so desperately needed.

Moreover, her attention to detail ensured that everything ran smoothly, allowing us to focus solely on remembering our loved one without any added stress.

We are profoundly grateful for her support and care during this challenging time. Her compassion and dedication made a world of difference to our family, and we cannot recommend Debbie highly enough to anyone in need of a truly special celebrant.