Slow Dating Avis 

Poorly orangaised- been to a few of these now and always more men than women.
Please delete my account so I’m not tempted to come again.

The best girl there was seeing someone and just there to support a friend

The website cons people into thinking there is more females going buy showings its sold out for females.

The always come back and use the same excuse sayings its a "booking live system"-

done a couple of these- all been a waste of time- never again. 2 of the girls last night said they were in relationships too and just supporting a friend (both confirmed to me their friend got offered and free ticket and can bring someone for moral support

Absolute terrible host. Won't use again. Very unprofessional

I've been to a few speed dating events and I always have a great evening. Kiera's a really great host; breaking the ice and keeping things light, whilst also being really efficient and checking everyone feels safe and comfortable.

I arrived at Turtle bay Plymouth for the event today and was greeted by the lovely Claire. She was so friendly and welcoming and made all my nerves disappear! The process was really easy and fun and I met some really interesting people tonight. Anyone who is thinking of giving it a go I would recommend it

I give this event five stars! You truly deserve it. The lock-and-key format is much better than the previous ones, and I had a lot of fun. However, the prizes could be simpler. Overall, the event was very well organized. In my opinion, the old format should be forgotten as it feels too outdated.

The only positive thing about this event is the local organiser
Most of the time there are less females than males. Event does not attract people at those prices thats why they keep sending people discount emails or texts.
They also con people by adjusting the availability by marking ladies tickets sold out or limited availability to attract gentleman.
Furthermore most woman attends to those events does not even try matching with anyone.
After few attempts of trying the event you ll only become friends with regulars because some towns are small and people know each other.

Event was sold out for guys (12) and 10 girls the host advised on arrival however only 7 guys showed and 5 girls (3 girls legged it before the event started) so down to 2 girl another 2 guys left, 5 guys and 2 girls dire event, as under six dates means people get a free return but I wouldn’t go again even if it was free. Feel they should have more place offered to allow for the no shows so if 20 people turn up you get 3 minutes if 12-15 turn up you get 4 minutes….. formula with current places and no shows just makes it a massive disappointment, to make this work rethink your strategy!! Don’t believe your stats! Lots of reviewers like this

The first time I went there were seven women and three men so it was cancelled on arrival and we were given a free go, I wasn't able to attend the event I transferred it to.
Went again two days ago as got a half price offer , this time a lot better thirteen ladies and slightly fewer men ,it went ok but only 6 of the ladies bothered voting , less than half . As some said they had been to that venue before I don't see the point of coming back as likely to be same ladies. The event was held on an open floor overlooking the main bar and was noisy and I struggled to hear when on certain tables.
May be useful if you could see who actually voted.

Rating: 2 out of 5

I attended a Slow Datings event recently, and it was quite a mixed experience. The event was priced at £22, which felt steep given how things played out. It was advertised to have around 12-15 people, split between men and women. However, on the day, only 11 women showed up, while 15 men turned up. So, not everyone who signed up followed through, which probably indicates that they weren’t that invested or simply unavailable for this type of event.

The venue, The Alchemist, looked nice but was a bit pricey for my taste, with drinks ranging from £7-8 and up. The setting itself was cramped, with a small, brightly lit room and high chairs, which made it feel more uncomfortable. We were all seated quite close, and with loud background music, it was challenging to hear or really connect with people.

The speed dating format allowed only 4 minutes per conversation, which felt far too short to get beyond basic introductions. Just as you’d start to get into a conversation, the bell would ring, moving you on to the next person. With 10 minutes per person, there could’ve been enough time for real interactions, especially considering the smaller group size and the break in between. The event could have easily lasted two hours and made better use of the time.

Another downside was the age range. The event said it was for people in their 30s and 40s, but most of the crowd seemed to be in their 40s and 50s. As a 33-year-old, I felt a bit out of place, especially because I look young for my age. Many attendees were extroverted, well-off, and seemed to be looking for a party vibe, while I found it hard to make a genuine connection in that setting. Most of the crowd appeared middle or upper class, with an emphasis on polished appearances, expensive clothing, and a more outgoing personality.

For anyone on a budget, like myself, the £22 fee felt like a gamble—and it didn’t pay off. I had hoped to meet someone more down-to-earth, but the environment didn’t feel welcoming to younger, more introverted individuals. If you’re someone who doesn’t fit the “middle class and up” mold or are introverted, this event might not be the best fit. It seems better suited for extroverted people who are comfortable in more affluent settings.

Overall, the experience felt rushed, and the environment didn’t allow for comfortable or meaningful connections. The event’s organization and structure could use some improvement, especially in timing and ambiance, to help people engage more authentically. I’d suggest skipping this one unless you’re confident it suits your style and financial comfort level.

Jenny was a bundle of enthusiasm and happiness which put everyone at their ease. She warned us that the office might be late sending the e mail the next morning and it duly arrived pm. They need a rocket up them as they are letting the host down in what is clearly a regular occurrence. Unprofessional

Waste of time. always late and people don't turn up. I tried it 3 times. the last time It was like pulling teeth. worse than internet dating being asked the same questions again and again.

i wentvto event i ask host about where to go he was unless i miss outvon 2 dates i fellow table right he gave me wrong information dint give people other time on dates as i was at right place host let someone take my date which should npt happen he was telling lies as well saying i wasnt fellow right table when i was

Disappointing event at Lost and Found Birmingham.
I've been to other great speed dating events organised by other companies but unfortunately the Slow Dating event was poor.
At other events, a private room at the venue had been hired out, but this event was held on a small, cramped mezzanine floor that overlooked the bar and as a result was very loud from the music and other customers at the venue. I couldn't hear my dates very well. The host also rushed off as soon as the dates were done. There were also a few men quite a bit above the age category - I know age categories aren't entirely strict but it was very uncomfortable to have a date with a much older guy. The category was 20s/30s but a few in their 40s, one guy said he was 44, double my age!
It was also the most expensive speed dating event I went on at £22 compared to usually around £10. If it was worth the extra money I'd get it, but as aforementioned not even a private room for the event, the speed dating card was a cheap, flimsy bit of paper and no nice extra touches like sweets and question cards like I've had at other events.
The vibe of the whole evening was just off. Didn't enjoy myself and didn't match.

Attended my first ever speed dating event. Lack of men which was disappointing but I guess out of their control. The fact my account wasn't working before and after the event and got very little help in this matter was even more frustrating. Also told I would be getting a free credit but never materialized.

I have booked a speed dating event at Milton Keynes on Thur 29th August and Wed 25th September. Before the events take place, the company are supposed to send out confirmation emails to the email address I have provided. I am yet to receive an email, telling me what time to turn up, etc. When I emailed, I was told they have been sent out. I have checked my spam folder and inbox and I definitely have not yet received any confirmations. Rather then apologise and tell me they would sent another confirmation for both events out, I was told the same information that they had already sent the confirmations to me. Not very good customer service and definitely not a very good first impression!

If you're fed up with the shallow dating Apps and want a chance to show your personality face to face, then I'd really recommend this company & specifically Cardiff after my recent experience. I don't usually review, but as I looked on Trustpilot specifically for a review of Slow Dating in Cardiff & could not find one before booking, I thought that I'd share my experience. I (44, male), booked a 30's - 40's event.

Venue: tbh prior to the event I heaved a bit of a sigh. Revs isn't really my sort of place. However, I was wrong for this Slow Dating event. Event was in a nice secluded room at the back. Lots of little tables & booths. Good location. They even had some decent beers to my surprise.

Event: Slow Dating delivered exactly what they said on the tin. I met 12 women (for reference there were 14 guys - but I accept that Slow Dating can't control no-shows...) & the allocated 4 minutes is actually a decent amount of time to get a feel for some chemistry. It sounds daft, but most of us were parched at the end (even with the break) from all the talking. The host was welcoming and, again, did exactly what I would have expected - kept us all moving around & provided all the information needed for the night. Very professional.

General Vibe (that Slow Dating can't reasonably be expected to control): Very friendly. Many of the women arrived as pairs, but most of us guys were on our own. Very quickly a few drinks were shared, as us single guys chatted & I presume the single ladies did the same. Post event there was a very friendly vibe as many stayed on for a couple of extra drinks. I reckon about half of the women and half the gents has some quiet drinks after and mingled to chat for a bit more.

Overall: Great event, run professionally - Slow Dating delivered 12 introductions to interesting women. That's a massive win vs the money I've wasted on soulless Apps.

Amy was an amazing host at Revolutions Sheffield this week. 11 men and 12 women on the night which was just right. Amy made us feel welcome and was very organised. I was nervous but she put me at ease. The gents were all polite and engaged and it was definitely better being in person rather than online. Would recommend.

I went to my first event in Bristol, which I thought was well organised and the website and registration email had lots of info so you knew what to expect.
I got there twenty minutes before the start but it wasn't necessary to arrive so early unless you wanted to chat to people randomly beforehand as check in didn't take too long. But mostly the women were chatting with other women, and vice-versa.
The host was lovely, put people at ease and explained everything well before it started. The women stayed sat down and the men moved around after 4 minutes. You had a little sheet to jot down some notes quickly in-between and there was a twenty minute break in the middle to pause, get a drink, go to the toilet or chat. There were two no-shows, which can't be helped by the company, but there were still about 13 women and 12 men. It started at 19:30 and finished at 21:15 but you could stay and mingle with people there if you wanted.
Really nice venue, the slow dating was in a room at the back with tables spread about so you aren't right next to each other in a line. It was a little noisy and hard to hear if someone had a quiet voice, but that's the case with any busy bar!
I was nervous beforehand but there was no need as everything is explained well, all the attendees were lovely and in the same boat (there were lots of first timers and a few who had done it before). Even if you don't feel connection to meet again, it's just 4 minutes of nice chat with a variety of people you might not normally meet. Give it a go!
I didn't have any issues so can't comment on the customer service part of Slow Dating. It would be nice to be reminded beforehand to put a picture up and enter communication preferences on your profile so people can remember who you are the day after when you need to choose who you'd like to chat to again.

Despite booking two weeks before, the date event for the group was cancelled with no reason given the night before so at short notice.